So I think I have pretty much given up on girls. As someone who has studied IT, I have very little exposure to girls and have few friends (and don't go out much). It is my hypothesis that a social life is a prerequisite to ever attracting a girl (plus such a social life is also a prequisite to having the chance to be in the presence of girls [unless girls exist at a school/uni/workplace]). Now in order to actually meet girls, I would need to hang out in social scenarios, and in order to be present in these, I would need to have a decent amount of friends. With friends (ones that aren't too nerdy), I could go out to places with them, in which I could meet other people and make more friends and thus satisfy the requirements of attracting a girl. However, without the bare amount of friends to begin with, I would assume all hope is gone?
If the answer to that is yes, I guess I might as well just give up on girls for an intermediate term. This would be because the solution to attracting a girl would be to totally transfer a person's personality and lifestyle into a very social context, which would be tricky and take an extreme amount of effort.
ehh not quite.
You could try online dating.. make sure you are careful though, there's alot of wackos out there.
Also make sure that they're in the same city as you are too.. Don't fall for that girl in Thailand/Russia/Philippines/Nigera who suddenly needs money to study/pay for medical costs/pay for a funeral.
Anyway, if you want to meet girls, try go to different clubs and societies at uni.
If not, join a few societies outside of Uni. . Join the SES volunteers, or a food van ministry. Meals on Wheels, or some sort of a book club. Sure there might not be any girls there, but maybe that older lady who is 50 has a pretty niece or a daughter.
Having no female friends can also be a good thing. Like for me, I don't really have any close friends that are girls. Don't get me wrong, It's not like that I don't talk to them, it's just that i prefer to keep them as acquaintances.
That's personal preference more than anything though, as back in high school i got friend zoned on more than one occasion so now I just keep those girls that I would 'date in the foreseeable future' quite distant.