Well now they're targeting Japan with their threats: http://english.yonhapnews.co.kr/news/2013/04/12/0200000000AEN20130412009100315.HTML
Which makes me question it a bit more now... surely they wouldn't take on Japan? That'd bring the whole international community against them...
Yeah, it really depends on what made things fall apart.
RealiseNothing is right, sometimes it's all about communication. Without it, you've no idea what the other person is thinking or feeling. The best thing to do is talk to her and be honest :)
The thing is, those in North Korea making these threats do seem to be unstable (whether they actually are or it's an act... who knows?). If they *did* attack the South, whether or not the US and the rest can intercede... it'll be devastating to many lives in the region.
My main fear is that...