taxman
make poverty
I'm in a dilly of a pickle right now, to fully understand it, you have to know how it all began. So get your reading glasses on.
I met this girl at Subway about a month ago, she was working there and I spent about 10 minutes trying to line myself up with her and failed, but eventually got served by her. We caught each other perving a bit, so I was pretty confident. I asked her for her number and got it, told her I'd call her the next day.
The enxt day, I called her and we hit it off, we spoke for five hours straight without a rest, it was amazing. We then talked continually for weeks, but I only saw her once because of her working (she's left school) and my exams and stuff. Then we didn't talk for a week.
I sent her a msg out of the blue and she invited me over to her place to watch the NRL grand final, I went, we had an awesome time, then the next day we went to the beach together, had an amazing time, flirted HEAPS and I thought I was in, but we never got enough time alone to kiss or talk or anything, so I figured I'd wait.
We talked a few days after on the phone and I asked her if she wanted a relationship, she told me she'd think about it, got back to me a week later and told me she really, really liked me but wasn't ready for a relationship, but still wanted to be friends.
So here we are, we are really close friends, but I'm still attracted to her and she's still flirting with me to the point that she spanks me in public, and called me gorgeous when I was in the change-rooms at Sandy Bay. So, obviously, she likes me.
Here's the problem. I don't want to push her for a relationship because I want to prove to her that I can be her friend without wanting more...but I can't even LOOK at any other girls because I like this girl so damn much. I don't know whether to make another move or just forget about it...I want her as a girlfriend, but I don't want to make an attempt and lose her as a friend.
I mean, here's some of the messages she's sent me over the past few weeks:
'No worries thanks heaps max, you're a great guy'
'thanks 4 comin max, i had heapz of fun.mwah.'
'Hey Max. Im good u? Bout the other day, i like you heaps and hope we can still be friends but i dont think im ready for a bf at the moment, sorry, hope we can stay friends cos ur the nicest person ive ever met. mwah. msg back please.'
'Miss you too. I'm glad you had fun, I love it when you msg me, it's good to hear from you.' - I saw her then night before.
So, what do you guys reckon? Should I make a move?
I met this girl at Subway about a month ago, she was working there and I spent about 10 minutes trying to line myself up with her and failed, but eventually got served by her. We caught each other perving a bit, so I was pretty confident. I asked her for her number and got it, told her I'd call her the next day.
The enxt day, I called her and we hit it off, we spoke for five hours straight without a rest, it was amazing. We then talked continually for weeks, but I only saw her once because of her working (she's left school) and my exams and stuff. Then we didn't talk for a week.
I sent her a msg out of the blue and she invited me over to her place to watch the NRL grand final, I went, we had an awesome time, then the next day we went to the beach together, had an amazing time, flirted HEAPS and I thought I was in, but we never got enough time alone to kiss or talk or anything, so I figured I'd wait.
We talked a few days after on the phone and I asked her if she wanted a relationship, she told me she'd think about it, got back to me a week later and told me she really, really liked me but wasn't ready for a relationship, but still wanted to be friends.
So here we are, we are really close friends, but I'm still attracted to her and she's still flirting with me to the point that she spanks me in public, and called me gorgeous when I was in the change-rooms at Sandy Bay. So, obviously, she likes me.
Here's the problem. I don't want to push her for a relationship because I want to prove to her that I can be her friend without wanting more...but I can't even LOOK at any other girls because I like this girl so damn much. I don't know whether to make another move or just forget about it...I want her as a girlfriend, but I don't want to make an attempt and lose her as a friend.
I mean, here's some of the messages she's sent me over the past few weeks:
'No worries thanks heaps max, you're a great guy'
'thanks 4 comin max, i had heapz of fun.mwah.'
'Hey Max. Im good u? Bout the other day, i like you heaps and hope we can still be friends but i dont think im ready for a bf at the moment, sorry, hope we can stay friends cos ur the nicest person ive ever met. mwah. msg back please.'
'Miss you too. I'm glad you had fun, I love it when you msg me, it's good to hear from you.' - I saw her then night before.
So, what do you guys reckon? Should I make a move?
...she is pretty touchy feely...I'll try that little wrestling game thing...see how it goes. I used to wrestle myself out at homebush, so maybe I can 'teach her the moves' so to speak 
