bridgett said:
what is the kinkiest/hottest thing u hav done wit ur guy/girl ... i need to know so i can spice things up a bit wit my guy ... any suggestions
Go into sex shops together, look at what they've got, and if you don't know what it does -- ask! Talk about the toys, see what grabs your interest and go with it.
Or, if you're broke (sex toys can be very expensive for what they are), work out what yours and his fantasies and sexual desires are: assuming you're comfortable with him, you shouldn't have a problem talking to him about what he desires (and, I think,
everyone certain sexual desires whether they know it or not... it can take a bit of uncovering).
Get a little creative and find out what his and your desires/fantasies are.. ie maybe he's got a few hidden exhibitionist tendencies, or is highly dominant or you'd like to make a porn movie together (can be a LOT of fun, not only to make but to laugh at yourself afterwards!) ...set some rules to be followed in the bedroom (or broken, if you prefer it that way
) which create tension and desire... the list is endless.
I'd give you specific examples of the things I've got whirring round my head but I think they'd get censored by the mods... just be creative!