Love at first sight vs. falling in love (3 Viewers)

[babydoll_]

What do you believe in?

I think love at first sight is a crock of shit... i mean, how could you just look at someone and go 'i wanna be with this person'? thats like wtfness

by 'falling in love', i mean liking someone you already know, or getting to know someone and realising they're right for you.

and you bitter people can vote for neither.

 

[bex]

i would love to believe that love at first sight is real but i think its a case of lust at first sight and then once you get to know them you start to fall in love with a them. love is on a whole other level to lust and sadly the distinction gets confused sometimes.. everyone has done it.... i have a big fat guilty written across my forehead!

 

[Lexicographer]

Originally posted by babydoll_
and you bitter people can vote for neither.

Thank you!

 

[ameh]

"getting to know you, getting to know all ABOUT you"

 

[Navjeet]

where's the "either" option?? I think it can work both ways....but then asquithian makes a valid point when he says "love at first sight is lust"

 

[Loz#1]

Originally posted by Lexicographer
Thank you!

Agreed. I'm bitter, especially today.

 

[AsyLum]

Falling in love!

 

[Enlightened_One]

You didn't put an option for both in

 

[MoNNiE]

falling in love for me
always has been..
[cept for maybe one.. that was forced!]
i can't see myself lookign at this guy... who i think is 'dead-hot' and then going up to them and say hey 'sexy ..so what are you doing tonight... oh i think i'm in love with you?!'
like wtf?!!!!!!!
but then again.. if i was majorily pissed that might happen..

 

[AsyLum]

ROFL

you dont need to be majorly pissed

no just a few drinks will do shitloads to your confidence [read as:ability to judge]

 

[jhakka]

The second one.

 

[truly-in-bliss]

i say a bit of both..

 

[Ragerunner]

love at first sex

 

[AsyLum]

Originally posted by Ragerunner
love at first sex

only if its good

 

[iambored]

i votes falling in love, but i think love at first sight could work, but it wouldn't be 'love' as such, lust as asq says

 

[Persephone87]

Originally posted by iambored
i votes falling in love, but i think love at first sight could work, but it wouldn't be 'love' as such, lust as asq says

I disagree! I know I couple of married couples who hit it off from the word 'go'.

 

[super katie]

I dont think you can love someone just by looking at them. You could have a thing for someone at first sight then realise you love them while you get to know them... I think love needs to grow. And its always fun falling in love, its half the ride

 

[Loz#1]

7 votes for neither. Whoever voted for neither, please share.

 

[ToO LaZy ^*]

i think the younger teens would go for the love at first sight..
'OOoo..look at HER racks!..i love her so much!'

 

[spin spin sugar]

i do think both is possible
the first time i saw my bf, i was immediately attracted to him, not in a sexual way but just in a way where i was really drawn to him. he says the same thing happened for him. i wouldnt necassarily call it love at first sight, but seeing what it blossomed into, i think it COULD be considered that. its a very superficial kind of love, even tho a lot of it is about gut instinct. but it is still a KIND of love i guess.