Mates or dates? (2 Viewers)

[yenta]

Hey for anyone here with boyfriends/girlfriends, if the situation comes up where u have to choose between going out on a date with your partner or going out with friends, which do you generally choose? For me I can usually have it both ways (a lot of the time I go out with my bf and we go out somewhere with a bunch of his or my friends) but if I do have to choose, it's usually the bf.

 

[christ_ine]

Bros before hoes, lol.

 

[canisay_Elvis]

Originally posted by christ_ine
Bros before hoes, lol.

but how many of us actually abide by this "rule"?

 

[ToO LaZy ^*]

mateees ratees!

 

[Tommy_Lamp]

equal times, but i would break up with my gf if she made me choose between my close friends or her

 

[iambored]

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[my sharona]

Originally posted by christ_ine
Bros before hoes, lol.

chicks before dicks...
and no, im not being serious...

 

[Malazn Pleasure]

Originally posted by whiterabbit
chicks before dicks...
and no, im not being serious...

wat if ur friend is a miriam?

 

[dark`secrets]

Originally posted by canisay_Elvis
but how many of us actually abide by this "rule"?

same with the term chicks before dicks.

 

[santaslayer]

Originally posted by Malazn Pleasure
wat if ur friend is a miriam?

You get "DA workz" don't you?

 

[reno2004]

Originally posted by christ_ine
Bros before hoes, lol.

yeh.

 

[jhakka]

As was said above, it depends on what is planned first.

 

[Persephone87]

You shouldn't discard a previous engagement with your friends for your partner, simply because of that status. For one thing, it is rude. How would you like to be treated as the second choice on the menu?

 

[Winston]

i'd try to balance it out... ... however in the past alot of my friends, just sort of went for the chick more, and i duno i didnt end up talking to them much since they got a chick.

 

[pc_wizz]

both

pcwizz

 

[Navjeet]

it'd depend on the situation...like if I've arranged to go out with mates, and my bf had a crisis of some sort like a family member passing away or being involved in an accident, and wanted me by his side for support, then I'd be there in an instant. however if it were just a "i wanna see you. come now" kind of thing, I'd explain that i already had something planned, and that maybe we could see each other the next day or somehting. Ideally of course, i'd bring him along to whatever it is that i'm doing with my mates and get to see all of the people i love and care about, but if it were a girls night or whatever, then yeah...i'd explain and arrange another time to see him.

 

[berry580]

wat if ur friend is a miriam?

I'd want that 'thing' out of my sight.

 

[Raiks]

My friends have a common rule 'Mates before girls unless it involves sex'

And its worked fine without a single problem.

 

[jhakka]

My girlfriend is part of my group of friends, so anything arranged with the group usually involves both of us anyway.

 

[Raiks]

My girlfriend is part of my group of friends, so anything arranged with the group usually involves both of us anyway.

Thats pretty much the situation i'm in... she usually is out with my friends or i'm out with hers, and both groups know each other so we all tend to intertwine into 1 big group.