Social Outcasts? (2 Viewers)

[Freakstyler09]

What makes one and why are they treated so badly, I c this guy at my school, his just basically used by all people, people look at him wierdly and shit. I just find it really appalling, I guess I'm the only person to talk to him.

 

[theism]

hmm i dunno.

people in highschool are horrible.

usually they hang out with other outcasts and form their own little group though

 

[Freakstyler09]

hmm i dunno.

people in highschool are horrible.

usually they hang out with other outcasts and form their own little group though

Not at my school, people are just mean at my school, some people would do anything to become popular and then in turn they themselves, who weren't as popular b4 turns around and treats my friend like a piece of crap. It gets my blood boiling that they can do this while my friends is slowly loosing his will to live.

 

[x.christina]

ugly fat people idk
people who dont make an effort to join in

 

[Phoenix Fury]

Well, is he a weirdo?
Like are people just total cunts to him or is he like abusive/feral/abnormal in a bad way or does something to provoke it?

 

[Freakstyler09]

ugly fat people idk
people who dont make an effort to join in

Nah it's not this, he does make an effort to join in but some how people don't receive him, I just feel people don't understand him, especially my other friends, who find it weird that I'm actually this guy's friend.

 

[Freakstyler09]

Well, is he a weirdo?
Like are people just total cunts to him or is he like abusive/feral/abnormal in a bad way or does something to provoke it?

ppl r total cunts to him, but I fink for one period he was really arrogant, this however has changed and it has been years since his was ever arrogant. I hated this really much in the past, but now that his kind, I don't c why people don't receive him as much, he does everything that is normal.

 

[theism]

is there anything wrong with him?

swears alot?
throws tantrums?
smells?
has a speech impairment?'
talks about the same things over and over?

says 'epic fail' in real life ?

 

[BlackDragon]

I think people prefer someone annoying or a bit rude to someone exceedingly awkward and people often villanise the really awkward people and make fun of them for no reason. Its always the really shy person that gets tossed aside first, I think.

 

[Freakstyler09]

is there anything wrong with him?

swears alot?
throws tantrums?
smells?
has a speech impairment?'
talks about the same things over and over?

says 'epic fail' in real life ?

well I believe he stutters abit sometimes, but that's no reason to reject him

 

[x.christina]

is he ugly and fat
idk

 

[Freakstyler09]

is he ugly and fat
idk

no his not

 

[theism]

for one period he was really arrogant,

there you go

 

[Phoenix Fury]

is there anything wrong with him?

swears alot?
throws tantrums?
smells?
has a speech impairment?'
talks about the same things over and over?

says 'epic fail' in real life ?

Screw you man

But yeh, seems pretty weird if he isn't an arsehole, why peope would be poops too him.

 

[Freakstyler09]

there you go

but that was years ago, can't people just forget it and move on, I mean his a changed person.

 

[x.christina]

lol well then idk

high school is so long ago meaning last year
i forgot all the problems already

 

[Freakstyler09]

he sometimes feels really akward sometimes, is that a problem, how I could I help him change his awkardness, he feels like his always being judge sometimes, mainly becoz his feeling of isolation basically makes him feel that way. But overall his a very nice person.

 

[Omie Jay]

he sometimes feels really akward sometimes, is that a problem, how I could I help him change his awkardness, he feels like his always being judge sometimes, mainly becoz his feeling of isolation basically makes him feel that way.

i bet you're really talking about yourself, hehe.

anyways, there was this similar dude in my grade, he didnt talk to anyone and he was generally weird, so that made him a social outcast.

if you dont make the effort to socialise then you're a confirmed outcast and it's your own fault.
otherwise it could be because no one likes you.

 

[BlackDragon]

he sometimes feels really akward sometimes, is that a problem, how I could I help him change his awkardness, he feels like his always being judge sometimes, mainly becoz his feeling of isolation basically makes him feel that way.

Its hard to change that, but the best thing to do is to get him to spend time with people that are actually nice, with you there. It would be a really gradual process.

 

[theism]

havn't you graduated OP?

start afresh in uni.

tell 'him' to be nice and not arrogant.