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epicFAILx

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recently i found out my best friend liked me more than a friend............ its getting real awkward between us now. What should I do?!
 

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you shouldnt feel awkward if you make them feel uncomfortable youll ruin a really good relationship
 

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Have sex with them. Then dump them for someone else and be a bitch/prick to them.
 

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you shouldnt feel awkward if you make them feel uncomfortable youll ruin a really good relationship
This.

If they're really your best friend then there shouldn't be any awkwardness. Just continue on as things were, they should understand.
 

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Be clear with your intentions. No wishy-washy statements like "maybe in the future, but just right now" or "i really really like you, just not like that." As a guy, your mind fucks with you and you look for hope in ANY statement.

Sit him down, look him in they eye and say "I'm not interested, deal with it."


edit: just realised I made an assumption on gender, but I stand by what I said no matter the gender.
 
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I take it shes not very attractive? or you see her as a sister?
Umm. I am a girl..
so my bestfriend is a guy...

and yeah.. i just dont find him attractive in the 'omg i love you' sense, rather he is a nice person but i honestly dont feel IN LOVE with him. :/
 

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Just tell him he's been friend-zoned.

He'll understand completely then.
 

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Like you understood when you weren't even allowed in the friendzone, assburgers?
So... you don't think I'll ever get friend-zoned because all girls think I'm relationship/fuckbuddy material? okay then.
 

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So... you don't think I'll ever get friend-zoned because all girls think I'm relationship/fuckbuddy material? okay then.
you're a virgin who cant drive
 

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So... you don't think I'll ever get friend-zoned because all girls think I'm relationship/fuckbuddy material? okay then.
Assburgers is strong in this one. I meant they'd never want to talk to you as either a friend or want a relationship with you.
 

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you're a virgin who cant drive
I can drive on the Playstation... <_<

I'll have you know I finished the final mission of GTA: SA - and that required epic driving skills... on the Playstation =P

Assburgers is strong in this one. I meant they'd never want to talk to you as either a friend or want a relationship with you.
Well, I just read a book called 'Proof in Mathematics' and your statement is basically an 'all' statement. And a way to prove that wrong is to give a counter-example. And to that - I have a wide variety of choice, so... I'll pick the example of: my algebra tutorial buddy from MATH1141.

We had lunch once and she couldn't finish her chips... so she gave them to me! I was like: "THIS HASN'T HAPPENED TO ME BEFORE" and I thought about crying manly tears of joy as I munched on the chips - but the chips were getting cold so I had to eat faster <_<
 
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recently i found out my best friend liked me more than a friend............ its getting real awkward between us now. What should I do?!
You ignore that she/he ever liked you to begin with and revert back to how you were before
 

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