Kittikhun
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- 2010
Sorry, if I have caused you any offence. I didn't mean to. The reasons why I made that lengthy post are mainly because I care about you as you remind me of myself a few years back, and that I worry that you're making such a plan concrete without knowing some essential facts first. If I didn't care about you, I wouldn't have bothered replying to you. I just can't fathom why your parents would want to move to the UK and settle there permanently. I mean, why did your mother move here from England in the first place? Do your parents have jobs reserved for them in the UK amidst the high unemployment rate right now in the UK that is starting to be reminiscent of the Thatcher years? There are a lot of English and Scottish expatriates living in my town and each and everyone of them whom I have met have told me that Australia is way better than the the UK and that they are much happier living here. Also, I had a classmate a couple of years back whose family had firmly decided to move and settle permanently in the UK and live in Birmingham, that town in the Midlands with a high proportion of South Asian Britons living there (she is of Punjabi descent and was born in Kenya, but moved to Australia when she was a toddler), because they had family there and were tired of Australia and its limited opportunities here, especially in regards to academia. They lived in the UK for two or so months in late 2009, and then quickly left and now live in Perth, WA. In my correspondence with her afterward, she told me that her experience was horrible and recommended to me to stay away from the UK at all costs unless I was 100% sure that I was going to live there for the rest of my life (I had plans to join the British Army after year 12 if I didn't get a good enough ATAR to earn a spot at uni). In fact, she made a similar tirade that I made in my previous lengthy post to you. This is why I replied to you. Also, just to make this clear, I wouldn't have replied to you if you were born in the UK or have actually been to Cambridgeshire, England, on a holiday, but in seeing that you haven't I had to make sure that you were cognisant of all the economic and racial problems in the UK at the moment, just in case.Don't say this rosy glasses shit to me mate. You sound bitter and that is just my observation. I have a choice between new York and London for investment banking because Australia is an economic dead end especially with this fucking government. Really who are you to judge my parents decision to move to the uk and why do you say all this. I live my life and do what I want to do, you haven't attempted to answer my question and just listed a bunch of reasons why it is a bad idea. I will say again that money is not a problem and that I WANT to live in England. As politely as possible I'm asking you why you would even make that lengthy post that you did?
And why would I be bitter? I have nothing against you and I don't even know you personally. Why would I want you to fail to realise your dreams and be unhappy? The last thing in the world that I would want is to make someone unhappy when they have done nothing wrong. I want everyone who is hard-working; determined; has a passion for what they are striving to do in life; and is of good moral character to realise their dreams and aspirations and to be happy. I made that reply because I care about you as I know that you are a good person from the tone and prose of your posts and because you remind me of myself a few years back. I used to be like you thinking that hard work and doing good things will reward you in life in turn and that people are generally good and that success is only to be found in academia. When I started the HSC, everything just suddenly hit me as I saw the bitching, the snobbery, the narcissism, the backstabbing, and immoral behaviour of some of my fellow peers start to manifest themselves in order for them to follow those dreams that they had been programmed to have by advertising and the media. I realised that the world was shit. It always was and always will be because of the vanity of some people who will do anything including treading on others who are innocent and honest in order to be that one step ahead following their empty and meaningless goal of having their name preserved for a short time before the extinction of the human race, and being ignorant of the fact that they are just decaying organic matter that has been recycled again and again for billions of years--ephemera that is in a fragile form that is nothing compared to the infinite magnitude of the ever expanding and awesome universe. I started to realise that success wasn't how much money, fame or prestige that you have but how happy you are and how happy others are around you. That is the currency of life, happiness, not some paper note or some useless gold bullion. I don't want you to be scarred by being backstabbed by someone whom you thought you could trust your life with in the future and believe me there will be some if you're middle or upper class, which I assume you already are. Ask your parents if they have been backstabbed or slandered if you don't believe me. Also, I made the reply because I worry that you are making such a drastic life-defining decision without knowing some crucial facts first. It seems to me that the only reason you want to live in England is merely because of Cambridge (sorry), however there may be other reasons for your decision that you have not made known in this thread, but just in case there are none, that reason isn't strong enough to justify your whole family to move and settle there permanently. There needs to much better reasons. These are the reasons for my lengthy post to you. If you're cognisant of the problems in the UK and still wish to go to Cambridge, I am not going to stop you. I just had to make sure you knew some facts before you are to go. That's it.
Also, watch the following video for a perspective on investment banking-
And this one-
Sorry for the long post. I'm verbose.
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