I just saw this. So...
My mum forced me to take Accelerated Business Studies in Year 8 (for Year 9 and 10 subject selections). Tbh, she forced me to take a lot of subjects that she saw "useful" and rejected a lot of "useless" subjects that I was interested in. And I guess even though I hated Preliminary Business, I eventually grew to love it when I was doing the HSC course and identified that Humanities were my strength.
By then, I already knew I wasn't very into Marketing and Human Resources (although my mum probably doesn't know I can actually make decisions) so I already aimed for Commerce to do Finance. (Or Actuarial, if I can really smash the HSC, very unlikely) My dad owns a small business and works with a lot of bigger companies so he knows a lot of people who work in Finance. And so thats when my mum really began "deciding" by saying I should be doing Finance because what fuels her is the monetary gains from that career.
This controlling nature struck again in Year 10 when I was picking Year 11/12 subjects. And honestly by then, I picked subjects that I knew I could abuse because they were my strengths, but I feel like my mum just lives vicariously through me.
And I guess being their child, it has grown onto me and I never rebelled to it. My younger sister is a different case apparently, because the same expectations aren't placed on her as she gets to pick all these arty subjects which were deemed useless when I was her age.
Why? I guess I could say its because I want their respect, and to rebel would be trying to gain independence when I can't even pay for my own necessities.
TLDR; Asian. Mum is controlling. Most things I've done have been defined by her. I don't rebel. I don't really mind anymore.