Anyone saying the 22 year old guy and 16 year old girl having sex is wrong should wake up to themselves.
I'm 16.
My boyfriend is 22.
We've been going out for 8 months.
We recently had sex.
It was my first time, and I was his 3rd sexual partner.
Just because a 16 year old and a 22 year old have sex doesn't mean the 16 year old is a slut or the 22 year old is a disgusting pedaphile.
Like Riet said, the law states that the age of consent is 16.
So to answer you're question; NO you are not justified in being angry.
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