Lundy said:Pointing out her hypocrisy is trolling now? eh, whatever you reckon.
She doesn't comprehend the parents actions because her parents are often irrational with their boundaries and these boundaries are constantly changing with parents moods. Often the punishment doesn't fit the crime and constantly being grounded means that a grounding looses its meaning. There is no reward in this house for good behaviour. That is probably the main problem here.PookieMonster said:she doesnt realise that she has in fact betrayed their trust and the problem i have here. is that she doesnt care. or seem to comprehend the point that the parents are setting boundaries to maintain their responsibility at keeping her safe.
The problem here is, that her parents are always saying 'you can see him after the hsc' but when the time comes around not allowing it. This is the irrationality and changing boundaries I was talking about.PookieMonster said:she sneaks out and comes home late. i believe huge miscommunication and disrespect towards her parents is shown. they dont have to show her any respect. the only reason boundaries have been set is because they care. she is selfish and doesnt see that its NOT ALL ABOUT HER and her fucking boyfriend.
ok obviously you havent read all of my posts....as ive said previously, i KNOW i breached their trust and did the wrong thing. i didnt sneak out and come home late, my bf snuck in my window. yet the fact him and i were still fully clothed is proof we werent doing anything except talking. and the "they dont have to show her any repsect"? where did u pull that from? it is, in fact, a childs RIGHT to be repsected by their parents.PookieMonster said:all shes really done here. is whinge about how she cant spend time with her boyfriend. shes young. and naive. her parents are obviously trying to help her get some order. she doesnt realise that she has in fact betrayed their trust and the problem i have here. is that she doesnt care. or seem to comprehend the point that the parents are setting boundaries to maintain their responsibility at keeping her safe. she sneaks out and comes home late. i believe huge miscommunication and disrespect towards her parents is shown. they dont have to show her any respect. the only reason boundaries have been set is because they care. she is selfish and doesnt see that its NOT ALL ABOUT HER and her fucking boyfriend. so what if shes happy. shes young. and naive. and has plenty of time to be happy. her parents are older, and want to see her make it thru this teenage angst which she obviously cant see beyond her hormones.
deal but dont use the words "me" or "i" or "myself" over and over in ur sentences.django_ said:one last thing, either learn correct grammar or fix the 'full stop' key on your keyboard.
PookieMonster said:deal but dont use the words "me" or "i" or "myself" over and over in ur sentences.
Lundy said:why are we obliged to be supportive of her?
PookieMonster said:oh fuck off i cant stand u. open ur eyes. pfft
Because clearly that's why she asked for advice and posted on this forum, as Cactus said *kudos to Cactus*Lundy said:why are we obliged to be supportive of her?
Lundy said:Criticism is something you have to learn to deal with, because you're inevitably going to encounter it at some stage in life. We haven't heard her parent's side of the story, all we have to go on his her word. I'm not going to pat her back and say "poor you." Going by what she did say, I posted my honest opinion on it. If she doesn't like it, she's free to block me, as are you.