Well i kiiiinda dumped my b/f for a girl. That is, I fell for her while i was going out with him, rejected her advances, felt even worse when i was with him because it felt nowhere near as "right" as when i was with her, so broke up with him to "sort myself out" then ended up dating her a few weeks later. But he also had a new g/f after a month or so, so i figure we're even. He was really really supportive and he's one of my best mates now, and he was really understanding at the time... i think breaking up just sucks really. regardless of the reason. and regardless of whether you're the break-er or the break-ee