Do guys expect this in a relationship? (1 Viewer)

[Annihilist]

I couldn't care less. I'm not particularly sexually driven so if they don't want sex I'm happy. I don't mind, so it's up to them.

 

[asari]

that is completely unfair and you are a terrible person

So you're saying that a girl who is willing to have sex on the first date is not easy? It's just my view

 

[Riproot]

lol sorry I'm not familiar with how a wedding works. The ones I've been to is just one night at a function.

That is no excuse. I've never been to a wedding in my life.

why would you want to be in a relationship if not to fuck the same person regularly

you could just be friends with them

yep

 

[boris]

So you're saying that a girl who is willing to have sex on the first date is not easy? It's just my view

saying she is easy is devaluing her judgement
she has chosen to have sex with this person, for whatever reason
if she is easy it is saying she had no choice and was coerced pretty much

 

[LadyLaLa]

why would you want to be in a relationship if not to fuck the same person regularly

you could just be friends with them

You have a point but I guess it's because I don't see a relationship that way.

 

[mirakon]

So you're saying that a girl who is willing to have sex on the first date is not easy? It's just my view

What if they are just strongly attracted to you, they aren't necessarily "easy"

 

[pony_magician]

So you're saying that a girl who is willing to have sex on the first date is not easy? It's just my view

yes and your view is a completely unfair opinion.

as boris said about other peoples choice.

just because a lady want to bang on the first date doesn't mean she's easy. she's made a decision to do it. there is nothing wrong with banging at all, and to make assumptions based on someones want to have or not have sex is completely unfair.

(bringing back this classic double standard) so if a man bangs on the first date does that mean he's easy too? no. it means he scored on the first date. good for him.

did you know that some women just enjoy sex and don't see it as some romantic lifelong agreement that means ~*~*you're together forever~~**~*~*~*~*

 

[LadyLaLa]

That is no excuse. I've never been to a wedding in my life.

LOL ok then... I don't get why you seemed pissed I didn't know what "Buck party" means.

 

[LadyLaLa]

What if they are just strongly attracted to you, they aren't necessarily "easy"

Well if you think about it. What if that person viewed it as a one night stand. Wouldn't you appear to be "easy" if you wanted to be in a relationship with that person?

 

[asari]

fair enough

 

[Riproot]

LOL ok then... I don't get why you seemed pissed I didn't know what "Buck party" means.

Because you're a 12 year old and have no perception of anything and say things like:

You have a point but I guess it's because I don't see a relationship that way.

 

[LadyLaLa]

Because you're a 12 year old and have no perception of anything and say things like:

What? I was only trying to accept a person's view. From how I was brought up premarital sex wasn't accepted in my family so I wanted to find out others thought on relationship without sex. I am not 12... I don't know much cause I've never been in a relationship.

 

[Riproot]

What? I was only trying to accept a person's view. From how I was brought up premarital sex wasn't accepted in my family so I wanted to find out others thought on relationship without sex. I am not 12... I don't know much cause I've never been in a relationship.

You don't know much because you've been brought up in a sheltered family.

 

[LadyLaLa]

wait... even if I was brought up from a sheltered family if I want to have a sexual relationship I can just be in one... All I have to do is hide it. So really it's my personal preference to not be sexually active.

 

[theism]

No.

 

[ZombieApocalypse]

I couldn't care less. I'm not particularly sexually driven so if they don't want sex I'm happy. I don't mind, so it's up to them.

^This.

Maybe it's just me... but as a 17 year old female, I actually have no desire for anything like that at all.
IMO, if he's going to leave you because you wont let him stick it in, he's an asshole who only wanted you for sexual gratification.

 

[pony_magician]

^This.

Maybe it's just me... but as a 17 year old female, I actually have no desire for anything like that at all.
IMO, if he's going to leave you because you wont let him stick it in, he's an asshole who only wanted you for sexual gratification.

no but as nice as that is

most people, male or female, seek sexual gratification. sex (or the possibility of sex in the future) is ultimately the difference between friends and ~*couples*~

 

[LadyLaLa]

^This.

Maybe it's just me... but as a 17 year old female, I actually have no desire for anything like that at all.
IMO, if he's going to leave you because you wont let him stick it in, he's an asshole who only wanted you for sexual gratification.

wow we share very similar viewpoints!

 

[IamBread]

Don't care.

/asexual4lyf

 

[Ivorytw]

Well yeah I would expect my partner to sleep with me. I'm sure waiting a while would not be a problem but not doing it at all would not be a relationship in my opinion anyway.

And for those saying they don't have any sexual desires, well they come with a relationship and unless you've actually experienced that sexual desire with someone it's a bit hard to say whether you would be able to wait or not.