that's not my point. I never said it AFFECTED God. When you say that "if we don't steal, its bad for us" meaning we disappoint God by GOING AGAINST HIS WILL, and therefore going to hell. He loves us, sure, but those who turn their back on him are condemned, and these morals and values that have been set in the Bible are there for a reason, so we know WHEN we are turning our back on him, for instance, if i were to have lesbian sex.
I know that you mean that God has given us the freedom to choose and loves us, and that there is no impact on God, but I do believe God DOES mind what we do, because if he didn't, there would be no hell.