It's different for different people. Like some people know "the one" is the person they love the most in the world (apart from family
), but to be honest, I think for me "the one" will be someone who I have respect for, get along with really well, and someone who can treat me as an equal. If love comes into the equation, well that's an added bonus, but if it doesnt, I can deal with that. I think if I ever get married, I'd like to have known the person first as a friend, and someone who I wasn't 'interested' in at first, just so I know what they are really like. Am i making sense? lol...probably not.