1Time4thePpl said:
thanks for getting back on topic. i didn't expect you to answer the question. to enjoy sexual experiences off someone you need to be attracted to them. how else can u get it up. it's the same as a fat unattractive girl that you would never sex. however, maybe under the pretenses of alcohol you may lose your inhibitions. but straight guys won't, even as intoxicated as they could get, receive head from another guy.
i'm surprised you can't admit they are bisexual. yes, they were attracted to you. or if not to you the concept of homosexual activities.
I may be an over-sensitive bastard, but I hate people who don't answer direct questions.
I don't think you need to be attracted to the person you're doing stuff with; there are so many other factors. I've always wanted to have sex with a girl (don't flame me, I'm sure I can find one for casual sex), but I've never seen a girl who I've immediately said 'I'd hit that.'
None of the straight guys were influenced with alcohol, I would never do that to a straight guy.
I suppose I could retort with the lame argument that 'we're all a little bi', but I think that's bullshit and some people (you, for one) would puke at the initial idea of gay sex.
I don't think they were either attracted to me or the gay activities, but were attracted to the physical pleasure gained from it. I'm sure they weren't thinking about me when they were getting turned on, and I wouldn't go so far as to say they weren't thinking of a girl
I'm sure a lot of guys share your opinions, but I think a lot of guys (most, I would wager) have such a high need for sex that it just overflows into a 'why not' mentality.
Like I said, I define sexuality exlusively as the gender of the partner one loves and could be with.
A bi person, imo, says 'I could spend the rest of my life with her / him', a gay girl says 'I could grow old with her', and a straight guy says 'She's the one'.
I don't think it has anything to do with getting your rocks off, although that's usually a big part of it (for the gay community, especially).