i think i may have ruined the best thing that ever happened to me. (1 Viewer)

[*o*]

last night i was with my gf, she was ignoring me, eventually i dragged her off, we argued, and eventually we agreed she would stay over.

the arguement was over the way she was acting with her step brother, whose father is dying, and ultimately my selfish actions led her to leave him by himself.

so now my gfs mum says she cant see me. and theres nothing i can do to fix it. my gf still loves me and wants to be with me, but i know things can never be how they were before.

i ruined it.

i dont know what to do.

i dont have questions, i dont want answers, i just hate myself, for the first time in 3 years.

 

[CrazyCong]

goodjob.

 

[monesh]

i love when ppl reply hate comments, goes to show how good the love life is for them. Just talk to the gf's mum man, tell her what u feel....thats all u can do i guess, or if u wanna be a fgt, go suck the dads dick to get into his good books.

 

[hermand]

last night i was with my gf, she was ignoring me, eventually i dragged her off, we argued, and eventually we agreed she would stay over.

the arguement was over the way she was acting with her step brother, whose father is dying, and ultimately my selfish actions led her to leave him by himself.

so now my gfs mum says she cant see me. and theres nothing i can do to fix it. my gf still loves me and wants to be with me, but i know things can never be how they were before.

i ruined it.

i dont know what to do.

i dont have questions, i dont want answers, i just hate myself, for the first time in 3 years.

i don't get what the argument was about.

she wanted to stay with her stepbrother but you convinced her to stay at yours?

i don't get that just one night would make a difference and why her mother would react like that?

i may be able to give you advice if you actually explain?

 

[tycho]

I'm sure you'll find a way to get around it...couldn't your gf still see you as long as she doesn't tell her mum? Unless her mum's got her on a leash or something...

 

[HalcyonSky]

lucinda my point was valid and not offensive

THANKS FOR THE NEEDLESS MODERATION

 

[settle*precious]

guess i'm just used to you being bitchy so when ever i read your posts all i see is

"bitchbitchbitchbitchbitchbitchbitchbitchbitchbitchbitchbitch"

on a serious note, it wasn't exactly what the op needs right now, don't you think? give the kid a break.

 

[Kwayera]

In Halcyon's defence, the OP probably should have expected some differing opinions.

 

[Zrap]

If you hate yourself, i hate you too!

 

[aimhigh10]

You're like ten, this isn't the biggest mistake you'll ever make.

well if you look at it that way....

 

[dood09]

last night i was with my gf, she was ignoring me, eventually i dragged her off, we argued, and eventually we agreed she would stay over.

the arguement was over the way she was acting with her step brother, whose father is dying, and ultimately my selfish actions led her to leave him by himself.

so now my gfs mum says she cant see me. and theres nothing i can do to fix it. my gf still loves me and wants to be with me, but i know things can never be how they were before.

i ruined it.

i dont know what to do.

i dont have questions, i dont want answers, i just hate myself, for the first time in 3 years.

 

[risole91]

Just chill aye brah

 

[WannaBang?]

Wait, so you wanted your girlfriend to be with you instead of being with her stepbrother whose father's dying?

Am I understanding this correctly?

If I am, you're a fucking bastard.

 

[scaredytiger]

wow.
like.
youre a tard.

i cant believe your gf still wants to be with you.

 

[Zrap]

I think your gf and stepbrother do it secretly

 

[DownInFlames]

You fucked up.

Best thing you can do now is apologise sincerely and hope to move on.

one question: are you upset at yourself because you screwed something up with your girlfriend, or because you did something selfish and hurtful? Cause if it's only the first one then don't even bother apologising.

 

[sifsosakenscrub]

dota therapy, a few godlikes can solve any problem

one time, i had a fight with my girlfriend

she sucked my dick whilst i got godlike

i really liked it, but i thought if i pretend to still be mad at her shed do it again

 

[ubernuton]

make yourself be dieing that way her mum feels bad and lets her see you

 

[Tulipa]

What you did was incredibly selfish and stupid.

But you know that already.

What you need to think about now is how to fix it. This does not mean apologising left, right and center. Apologise once and make it sincere and succinct. Accept that they will probably be very upset with you for awhile and eventually, maybe, if you're lucky, they might let your girlfriend see you and things can slowly get better.

 

[ubernuton]

or you could get her pregnant