Just want to stay alone for the rest of my life... anyone? (4 Viewers)
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Sadiah
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I said that once upon a time. But that changed.
Dunno about you, but some people tend to say that when they've had a bad time..
But trust meh ... you won't be able to. Later on in life, at some stage in life, you will feel the need of someone.
I agree that it is hard to trust someone, but if you don't trust anyone .... you ain't gonna get anywhere - you'd form this sense of hatred with everyone, besides yourself.
Omie Jay
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scaredytiger
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I remember a guy saying that, ideally, he wanted to live alone and be alone, and if he ever got lonely he would call a whore.
Two weeks later he was in a relationship with someone. And that someone was there when he said the aforementioned dream.
Edit: He's 19-20.
Two weeks later he was in a relationship with someone. And that someone was there when he said the aforementioned dream.
Edit: He's 19-20.
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x.christina
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maybe you and OP should get together
Grape juice
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bad idea.
Ive always kept my feelings to myself, and i seriously dont want to get attached (forever).
Back then about 2 years ago, when my pet of 8 years was still alive, i'd spend all of my day with him, i'd talk to him, bring him out for walks, bought him loads of treats with my pocketmoney (on top of his normal food+supplements); and I was really really attached to him.
Yea, but after he passed away due to old age, i just gave up on the thought of having feelings for anyone else or anything. (mainly because i dont wish to experience such a hurtful feeling again). Cause i know that it'll eventually end up badly.
(well, except for my family, i love my family alot, more than anything.)
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give it time and you'll get over it
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um wow
Grape juice
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i havent until now, and its been about 2+ years(coming to 3).
And i still cry occasionally when i think about it.
I still do my best to make friends. But just not "best friends". and i still keep it clear in my mind to never get attached.
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that'd suck 
maybe you have a fear of commitment, either way im pretty sure no one actually lives like that, some day something will happen that will change your mind.
maybe you have a fear of commitment, either way im pretty sure no one actually lives like that, some day something will happen that will change your mind.
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you say that now.
learn to roll with the punches, you'll be better off in the long run.
learn to roll with the punches, you'll be better off in the long run.
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You're trolling right?
thats something i would say for the lulz.
Grape juice
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im not. and you can read my post history, and ive never trolled.
im speaking from real experience.
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Omie Jay
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this.
Grape juice
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thats exactly true. a fear of commitment.that'd suck
maybe you have a fear of commitment, either way im pretty sure no one actually lives like that, some day something will happen that will change your mind.
I dont talk to girls, cause i dont want to get attached, or even to get to know them.
My parents were fearful that there was something wrong with me, but i explained it to them, and they actually said something close to what you mentioned.
but ill still stick with what my current decisions are. That is to not get attached.
but, thanks omie.