Okay...like you said they are my views....and maybe I should explain a bit more.
I think that:
--you should wait, i mean i have a boyfirend but we both undertand we must wait
--I don't tink it is just western culture that does those htings i never said it was just it appears more promonant, i mean it's all about the body image stuff and 'sex sells' you know?! I mean it's likea plague of the brain or boils you know and they become pussy and burst, that's what I htink anyways....i'd prefer personally to vomit and eat it back up with a tea spoon then have sex before marriage (copyright from deegs'o5)
--if you never get married then, well too bad
The idea is that youa re tested all your life in islam to proove your strength and love of allah (swt), and any temptations like gay-ness amsterbation, sex before marriage is all a test of that.
The idea is not to care really about those things, just do what all (awt) has prescribed for you, adn you will receive all things in the hereafter. So who cares if yu dont have sex in this life, because if you wanted a 1000 beautiful women to mate with you could have that in the hereafter, and in the hereafter you would not have the contrants of this life, meaning you would be able to have sex for as long as you wished and as many times in a row and with whom ever you wished. That's why you wit, or you don't at all cause you do not marry, but in islam it is seen as a man fulfills half his religious obligations by marriage. In islam sex (after marriage) is a must. You must do it as often as possible, and it is a beautiful thing, allah 9awt) m ade it so we coudl so we do.
allahu ukbar alhamdullilah.
allal knows what is best.