dethroned said:
this year (2006) i'm in year 11.
you might like to know i can't stand school! i hate it so much. i really want to go to TAFE because it seems like i got more freedom. i don't want to be stuck with a bunch of immature idiots.
please, someone help me on this one. if there is no way i'll either quit school or run away from home. so, please, can you give some advise?
and do you think i'll regret it going to tafe? is it harder to make friends there and such?
Hey mate, I know how you're feeling. At the start of year 11 I just hated school. I only went on because my parents urged me to, cause they had high expectations and all that crap. I looked into going to tafe but it just didn't work out for me, I tried running away but my brother saw me leave and told my old man. Boy, that was I day i'll never forget.
But I got in touch with my grandparents and they let me stay with them for a few weeks. They drove me to school, and I got to hang out with them (really nice old people) and my aunty who i get along with great. Even though I hated school, they really helped me through it. If you have people like that, an aunty or uncle, or your grandparents, or perhaps a good friend, who you can stay with over this really tough period I really encourage you to do so. I went back home about a month later, still not liking school, but I could recognise how much it meant to my parents for me to stay there.
Looking back now, when i have my hsc, and how i've developed such good relationships with my teachers, I can say that it's the best decision i made to keep in school. I remember the day I finished year 11 and thought to myself how lucky I am to even have this opportunity, when there are kids allover the globe that can't get the education I have been given on a platter.
Times can be real tough, and yeah look into tafe and I hope it works out for you. But if not I really want to say don't drop out of school. It's something you'll really regret. Try and talk to someone about it, not your parents perhaps but another friend or family member who can put things into perspective. If you endure the shit for a while you'll come out of it feeling so rewarded, and you'll have a million options at your doorstep.
Let me know how you come through. I hope that you can find some comfort in these tough times.