bshoc, even though I agree with most of what you say, you need to cool it. What is the point of this thread? To discuss the point. You are posting here because you want to sway another person's opinion (if you're not, why are you?). To do that, you need to appeal to them. People's beliefs are influenced on what they want and/or what is good for them. Appeal to this. If you are aggressive, you are portraying pro-lifers as aggressive. If someone came up to you with a great business idea, would you listen to them if they came up to you wearing rags and swore/cussed at you or if they came up to you dressed neatly with manners? You also NEED to listen to their opinions as well. If people arn't heard, they will lose interest and/or get annoyed. It is also a basic debating manner... you need to consider and evaluate the other's argument, and if it is valid (after much thought), be pursuaded by it. If a pro-choice person came up to me with an argument I could relate to/agree with, sure... I would support pro-choice.