Ack, the argument of 'how much should ideology be present in the way one runs the country'.
Frankly, I couldn't give a shit about a party's personal stance on anything as long as it doesn't manifest in a way that affects us. I really don't care if the leaders are homophobic racists, I don't have to personally get on with them. I care if they start making nasty laws, but we can't pretend that a leadership's personal views will always infiltrate into legislation.
Although you could argue that a lot of one's beliefs dictate politics, I think that grouping yourself with 'conservative', 'left' etc, is dangerous. Essentially, if you think you're mainly 'right-wing', you'll end up doing things you don't believe in.
I would say I'm pretty conservative; I would say that I'm very old-fashioned when it comes to the judicial system and punishment. I would say that I'm a tough asshole and treat drug addicts and pedophiles like sub-citizens. I would say that, whilst I'm against the government's current immigration stance, I'm not as 'forgiving' as a lot of the idyllic trash I read. If I'm against the government on immigration, but aren't with the 'let them in' camp, what label am I? Surely my cruelty to criminals would make me a right-wing jerk, but how could I be right wing and also gay? Doesn't that just not work?