Wat it is that guys like in a chick? (1 Viewer)

[flowergrl]

What sort of question is this?

I can tell what I want from a girl.

Don't prattle about stupid shit,

Be attractive (at least some sort of effort)

Learn that life isn't all serious (fucking relax)

Learn to like spanking, biting, giving blow jobs, anal and love letting me blow semen on you. But don't be slutty about it.

As you can see there is no girl like this. But this is what I want.

i c. good luck finding her.

 

[Oddy Nocki]

i c. good luck finding her.

What? You think everything is serious don't you?

 

[tlodg]

I know i prefer a few things:
- great personality
- at least a semi-good body (no ones perfect and personality i reckon is more important).
- Few things in common (eg. religion, views, friends, hobbies) but not too much as it can end badly (as i know from my last girlfriend)
- Funny (Humour) is very important and the ability to relax
- To not overtalk about really uninteresting things (eg formal dress is boring to guys)
- Trust and respect and honesty are vital for love

define great personality

 

[RanyofuKenyan?]

define great personality

Yours, tlodg.

 

[tlodg]

Yours, tlodg.

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!oh my XY!%175%
Do you play pool? thought I saw you playing pool one at Wentworth one day. But after a closer look....seemed like it wasn't you!
It was in the early morning,
I was probably half-awake that time.....

 

[RanyofuKenyan?]

last time i played was wednesday arvo.

so no, it prolly wasn't me.

 

[Riddles]

personality mainly 4 me, but i hav 2 find them physically attractive as well.

 

[Gilbert1]

Answer: Males and Females are looking for themselves in a partner. They are most attracted to a personality that is quite similar to their own. Physicially they are likely attracted to people hotter than themselves but people are realistic and generally end up with people aproximately as attractive as themselves.

The only other 'logical' answer is: we are looking for our opposite gender parent (except maybe for homosexuals who are looking for same gender parent).

Yeah I've heard the same thing. Apparently the perfect person for us is us and we are made up of a mixture of your mum and dad. EWWWW yes we all wanna go out with our mum and dad (but i really doubt it)

Its just like jerry said
"now I know what I've been waiting all my life. Me. And now ive come and swept me off my feet"

 

[C@mM!]

Personality (duh) - i.e. likes to joke around, can humour me, and can stand the insane antics i end up with (not many people can stand a simple crush turning into hardcore sex including whips, leather, payment and goats and not get pissed, lol).

Intelligence - if you cant hold a decent conversation, dont come knocking. This includes having an opinion actually formulated by yourself, and not the newsman, your parents, or any other influential figure whose probably full of bullshit.

Music - if you dont have a wide music tase, dont apply. Unless you can stand ZZ Top and Eric Clapton, to Katie Melua and Jamie Cullum, to Machine Head and Pantera, to Roxette and Savage Garden, your fuct. lol

Confidence - probably comes under personality, but If I have to nurse your every insecurity (i.e. some girl called me fat today or some guy oogled me today) I will turn off, and eventually, turf off. I don't mind being supportive, but for real issues please.

Looks - dont really care, cuz in the end, I'm only going to love you for the top 4 (btw - not in any particular order), and lets face it, most women look fantastic when you love them anyway (imo). so, niet (i just wont mention my babe's drop dead gorgeous, lol (pm me for a pic (no porn) if interested, lol).

Ultimately, if your confident, can have a laugh and are intelligent, were going to get along very well, and if your an aries, we'll kill each other but the sex will be excellent, lol).

Cheers

Camm

 

[kunny funt]

1. looks
2. sense of humour
3. intelligence

in that order (yeah looks are first, but ur lying if u only go for personality)

wat i hate:

1. bad hands
2. simply fail to see the guys point of view
3. if shes an evil bitch

 

[tlodg]

post in wrong place? :rofl: .

i like chicks who dont take stuff too serious. who are decent looking and are intelligent

lol
so when you ask for sex she'd be like
"heheheheheh that's so funny! sure, whatever! oh baby, tickle my vagina too haahhahahahaha"

well i like guys who don't take things too seriously too! or else it'd always be like..
GIRL: "hey, bitch!"
BF: "I will NOT allow a girl to call me bitch. Don't you dare call me bitch again, I'm not that kind of person. Are you PMSing? Why are you insulting me this way? Stop whining."

 

[*hopeful*]

someone with the ability to have a conversation, laugh and look good.....

 

[Gurlpower]

1. dont smoke, alot of guys dont like smokrs, even if they smoke themselves or dont or openly say so


2. ditch the feminazi stance, most guys prefer the traditional housewife mould and think your too much if you try too b to independant or better than them.

3. learn to give a kickass blowjob, and sallow while your at it.

4. dont be too loud and in your face, your not a man.

5. as mentioned, the ability to have a meaningful conversation, not just 'pariz hilton OMG her shoess!!112' if you understand my drift.

6. big tits

7. little too no make up, yet to meet a boy that likes make up.



hope i can help.

 

[P_Dilemma]

Women seem to like to talk. Men seem to prefer to do stuff, and i don't mean just sex.

Not that conversation isn't good; what's a good relationship without good communication? But I think we all need to learn when to shut up, read the signs, and react in a positive manner. Talk is cheap; silence is golden.

Of course, the girl gotta have some good looks. I prefer the "cute" factor over the "beautiful" factor; "beautiful", to me, just seems loosely synonymous with "seductress"... "slutty". Most men choose to be the nurturing type, rather than have a partner with a competitively dominating personality. Of course, some men like a challenge

And for the physical side, we need to learn to do things together. Share the housework, help eachother with homework, go to the movies, have a quiet game of chess/go with eachother, maybe even just reading next to eachother. Hell, people are taking it so far as to chat with laptops rather than having verbal conversation. I'm in two minds about that extreme, though.

And, of course, there's the sex. I will endeavour to bring pleasure to my partner, and my partner should also hold some concern for my pleasure. Sex, after all, should be a mutually satisfying experience. Selfishness can just ruin everything.

And then there are the other small things, like bad habits, that need to be taken into account. I will not go for a girl who smokes, drinks, gambles, screws around, shops till she drops, blabs her ass off, spends more time on makeup than work... hmm, that's a pretty long list, i guess they aren't such small things after all.

Anyway, you get the idea. Maybe I'll have more than one partner. But I'd at least want them to be good relationships. And when i do find the love of my life, I'd work (with my partner) to ensure that it becomes a lasting relationship.

-P_D

 

[tlodg]

cassie.bullock.

I agree with you that most guys prefer traditional housewife moulds but that's more likely to be true in the case of marriage. What a man wants for a gf is very different to what he wants for a wife.

#4. hhehe TOO loud
well sometimes it's considered "cute"

#7. I agree
but you also have to have nice skin without makeup or else they might secretly hope that you at least have a bit of makeup on

 

[lengy]

If you're not perfect yourself do not ask or expect perfection.

 

[AsyLum]

If you're not perfect yourself do not ask or expect perfection.

And if you are?

 

[RanyofuKenyan?]

1. dont smoke, alot of guys dont like smokrs, even if they smoke themselves or dont or openly say so


2. ditch the feminazi stance, most guys prefer the traditional housewife mould and think your too much if you try too b to independant or better than them.

3. learn to give a kickass blowjob, and sallow while your at it.

4. dont be too loud and in your face, your not a man.

5. as mentioned, the ability to have a meaningful conversation, not just 'pariz hilton OMG her shoess!!112' if you understand my drift.

6. big tits

7. little too no make up, yet to meet a boy that likes make up.



hope i can help.

Let's go out, sometime.

 

[tres bien]

bahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Some of these HSC 2006 people are killing me!
"Oh personality is so fucking important!"
"I want a chick with brains"
"I don't care about how they look"
"I want someone with a great sense of humour"
"Nobody's perfect... blah blah"

I'll give some of them two years... they'll change their attitudes and will be saying they want sex, sex, sex [obviously with hot chicks]! I think Oddy Nocki speaks the truth.

!!!
I can't stop laughing!

EDIT: or maybe I'm just hanging around/falling for the wrong guys?

 

[synthesized]

i have 3 simple criteria to look for in order to decide that i like a girl.......

1. cannot be a moron, but not an academic snob either.
2. cannot view the world as if it owes something to her.
3. must look and behave young and innocent.

if all 3 of those are satisified then im in.