id rather sms or whatever..i dont like in person
except the only bad thing is with email or sms it can be taken the wrong way..u need facial expressions and tone of voice and eye contact and all that to really understand
but im shy to talk bout those sort of things so sms worx 4 me..
anyways back to the thread.. depend on the person if close fwen or not.. but better if u talk to them rather than msg .. if not close person try ignore it or say wtf? lol if close fwen discuss directly how u feel abt that msg on the phone