17, have not yet and don't intend to until after marriage.
I have read this thread and I am a Christian but don't value those who are no longer virgins any less. I see it as something I want to give to my wife, I understand that people have made mistakes and that my wife may not be a virgin but if she has made the decision to no longer partake in these activites until marriage than that is just as valuable. I plan to marry a Christian out of prefference.
I think that its safer with all the STIs out there these days and if she sux well we have the rest of our lives together to get to know what each other likes - al long time to get it right.
I have many close friends that have had x-boyfriends rape them, this is upsetting but for me I understand that I cant ever fully understand their situation but they are still just as valuable to God and to me.
I understand that I will most likely get a lot of criticism from making this post but I want to put it out there. Not as a statement but to help people understand some Christians - its hard cos some Christians do like to make a statement and dont understand the effects of there actions.
I hope this helps some understand the veiw point of many Christians(maybe not all because of all the different denominations etc...).