icelillies said:
I would say most girls that I have met - that are 'hot' - have different priorities to girls such as myself... I want to pursue Law/Politics and so the careful crafting of thought and intelligence is obviously more significant for me than for say a girl who simply wants a 'good time' (thus her more skimpy attire) and who will eventually end up married, etc. What I wear reflects my attitude and desires. I opt for the classical high waisted skirts, expensive fabrics, etc. I also usually consider the best cut for my figure as ones appearence is most definitely important in our humanistic society. My goal (ultimately) is to make a positive impression of beauty and intelligence. - not a sign post of 'I AM EASY'.
I totally agree with this.
I wouldnt call myself bad looking
however i would never wear some of the clothes ( or lack of ) that i see a lot of girls wearing. Not because ill look bad in them, but simply because those who wear v. revealing clothing, despite their personal reasons ( ie; weather ) still give off the same message. And that is ' im easy'
Im not saying anyone that wears revealing clothes is a skank. Yes it could very well be because of the summer in australia. Most cases that probably is why. However regardless of those reasons, when someone sees you dressed that way, they still make the ' shes easy ' judgement of you. Simply because as a society thats what we do.
And when i have guys approach me, I know its because they know who i am as a person and thats what they like, and not simply because they think ill be easy to ' get into '
Girls who dress that way lessen their values, then complain about how guys dont respect them. If you dont respect your body i dont understand how you can expect other people to.
I think most girls who are smart realise this and dress accordingly. thus the only people who stand out as hot are the ones who really out do themselves in search of other peoples approval and in the process pretty much give all they have to gain that approval.
DOes that make any sense ? I think ive gone off topic
Thats my two cents anyway
ps; i apologise if this in anyway offends anyone here.