dagwoman said:
It's no ones fault. Most of the time it's an accident- that's no ones fault. Who else is paying? It's the removal of a very underdeveloped clump of cells from a woman's body, a procedure that should be her choice alone.
An accident is someone's fault. one person or another was negligent. It cant just happen just like that, someone was lazy or someone was stupid. Thats why accidents happen - because someone was not up to it.
Of course there's emotional trauma with an abortion. In any situation where there is an unwanted pregnancy, there is trauma, however in most cases, abortion causes the least. People who can't afford to have a child and get pregnant haven't done it on purpose- that should be obvious. Giving it up for adoption is all well and good until you put yourself in the position of the woman who then has to endure 9+ months of emotional and physical trauma from pregnancy and its after-effects, as well as having to give up a baby. I don't see what your point is about people living for less than a dollar.
You cant measure emotions, its simply impossible, one persons emotions to one particular incident will be different to anothers. Each persons has been brought up in a different environment there is no way everyone will be happy with an abortion.
Its done on purpose - fact is they know sex has the purpose of reproduction. They know if it doesnt go as planned the female will get pregnant - why take the risk? when you know the consequences?
With everything comes a consequence - life is tough - live with it. Its bit robbing a bank and then expecting a lighter sentence because - u suffer from trauma of being caught. The person knows if they are caught robbing they will be punished, but they continue anyway? - It may been an accident how they are caught - but its still their fault.
There are people living with less than a dollar and are able to bring babies in countries where there no welfare systems at all. In Australia we have a good welfare system compared to other countries and solid medical system as well. If someone's says they can bring up in child because of financials problems - I will srs laugh at their face! Its an excuse and a crap one.
The fact is that no matter how diligent and careful people are, accidents happen. Unwanted pregnancies happen. Safe, legal abortions need to be available to women, because they will be carried out whether the law supports them or not. However, if the law does not support them, women will be forced to have backyard abortions, causing many unnecessary deaths.
Unwanted pregnancies - dont happen just like that - they happen someone had sex - and they knew of the risks involved and still continued to have sex. Had they been smarter they would have not had sex at all - if pregnancy was a real issue.
Exactly - but you dont se people avoiding the consequences of one. An abortion is simple an inhumane way of dealing with a problems.
I agree that safe/legal abortion need to be avaiable and I agree under some circumstances abortion need to be carried - but I believe they should not be available to everyone who claims 'they cant afford another baby' or 'that they wont be able to handle the extra stress'.